Anal Sex & Prostate Massage

A lot of people believe that,  anal sex is for gay men only. It is not true. US studies proved that, around 10% of the adult heterosexual Americans practice anal sex regularly.  This means a larger number of straight people practice anal sex than gays.  In fact anal sex is not a preferred sexual practice of around 40% of  gay men. 

The Anal sex is very popular in South America. Studies and surveys found that, 40 - 50% of the South American couples practice anal sex regularly. Many of them practice to avoid pregnancy, some others practice it during menstruation, to avoid the blood, and the younger girls practice anal sex to save their virginity

Start massage the buttocks with firm strokes. Separate them slightly and massage your way down to the anus in the crack.

Massage the perineum area with your finger pad. Apply light teasing strokes to the anus. With a well moisturized finger circle the anal opening.  If your partner doesn't mind, insert a finger into the anus and gently circle the inside opening. Also you might insert two fingers. And if you think your partner enjoy it you might move your finger in and out in a anal intercourse simulation....  Some women could have an orgasm by having they anus and perineum massaged. Also this is a excellent way to try to talk someone into anal sex. And the flip side - for men - anal massage is the first step to prostate massage....
 

Rear entry is a most popular anal sex position, because easy to perform. It allows the penetration to be the deepest, and permits the receiver to better open the anus for entry. Rear entry doesn't offer the kind of intimacy or ease of communication that the other positions do, but for more advanced lovers, can offer the greatest amount of thrusting and penetration. On the picture at left, the anal sex position  is called "Face to Face" anal. It need experienced partners and lot of practice. This position advantage is, the sex partners see each other's face, they can talk with each other, she can play with her clitoris and even can finger herself, and he'll see all.

Would you like to know more about anal sex position? You will find here descriptions of popular anal sex positions with few demonstrative real anal sex photos.

What is the prostate, and why can it enhance sex?

At first before any misunderstanding, the prostate is a organ that males have only. The Prostate Gland is located in the region between the anus and the scrotum. Is is responsible for both manufacturing a fluid that helps produce semen, and closing the urine duct to allow for the "safe passage" of sperm. Because of its intimate relationship to a man's orgasm, the stimulation of the prostate can cause incredible pleasures while having orgasms. When massaged properly during sex, and especially during orgasm, the prostate can be a source of great pleasures. But many men are not interested in any kind of anal playing. If your partner one of this man, than you better stay a way from his anus area. However if he doesn't mind anal play, we'll give you some useful and "how to" ideas in the next few paragraph.

Pressing The Prostate Can Generate Orgasm

The anus area have millions of nerves endings. Because of this fact it is very sensitive plus offers a world of pleasure and sensation for everyone, who's sex partner knows what to do there! For men, who does like anal play offers extra delights because both the base of the penis and the prostate gland are accessible. For some men, pressing the prostate itself can generate an orgasm, for others it just adds to the sensations. You can stimulate the prostate with a finger, dildo or other anal toy through the anus. It’s located about two inches inside towards the belly, in the direction of the penis.  In fact its location is similar to the G-spot's location.  If you have the full consent of your partner you may wish to try an advanced technique in male genital massage. Stimulate the man's prostate gland at the same time one is stimulating the penis.

Stimulating The Prostate

When stimulating the prostate, you should wear latex gloves,  have short fingernails and use lots of lube. Insert your well moisturized, rubberized,  middle finger into your partner's anus to the second knuckle, (inch - inch and a half deep) and stroke upwards in a "come hither" motion. You should feel the prostate through the rectal wall. Keep it gentle at first. If your partner enjoys it, then push a bit firmer. Part of what some beginners find novel about anal penetration is that it makes one feel as if one has to go to the bathroom. By going to the bathroom pretty thoroughly before beginning play, and clean the anus area very well, may have an easier time not interpreting this new sensation in the old context.

Ejaculatory Orgasms

Pressing on the prostate gland during ejaculation, or when a man is close to ejaculation, can feel wonderful. It is also possible for some men to have ejaculatory orgasms through prostate stimulation alone. You can combine prostate stimulation with other forms of sex! If you are using your finger or anal toys, try performing fellatio at the same time.

If your partner don't like anus area play you can perform  prostate stimulation by firmly massaging the area between the anus and the scrotum from the outside. His orgasmic pleasure will become greater.

Prostate Massage and Sex Game

Prostate massage is as other kind of sex or sex game. Some men enjoy it, some others don't. The amount that a man will or will not enjoy this depends on his personal physiology as well as how he feels about it in general. Some men may find it unpleasant for a number of reasons, while others will experience incredible orgasms. The relaxation and patience is the key. If it's enjoyable, then do it! If not, there's plenty more fun to be had doing other things, so don't worry about.