Masturbation And Masturbations Ideas For Men And Women

Masturbation is one of the greatest stress relievers... Masturbation and Swinging

There are a lot of swingers everywhere and there are a lot of ways to swing. Every swinger swings for different reasons and do it in different ways. Some of them practice soft swinging, some others swap sex partners. Some others swing to turn each other on or to get their regular partners in the mood.  

With masturbation it is easy to reach this target. Also these days we hear a lot about safe sex and AIDS. Some swingers masturbate  because they are afraid of contracting HIV.

How should couples masturbate?

Set the mood as you set it for having sex. If everyone loves porno movies then watch them. Use soft music and soft lighting. Scent candles are the best for this.  Everyone should get the "do it" attitude from the movie. The guys should undress nice and slowly.  They can be nude.

The ladies should wear minimal sexy clothing. If someone is still not into a masturbating mood, dance slow, dance naked. It will work. You should explore your secret erotic fantasies while masturbating. You can fantasize about erotic encounters with anyone. Make love in your fantasy with a person you cannot have. For some women fantasizing about a  romantic story while masturbating works very well.

Most men fantasize about erotic women's body  parts while masturbating. Also lots of swingers fantasies are sexual activities, such as group sex, S&M, bondage or even rape. Sex therapists say, this kind of fantasy is harmless if they never become compulsive and obsessive. These fantasies have nothing to do with the crime of rape and should not even be called rape. If the couples love talking erotic to each other, do it. 

The goal is orgasm

For ladies to reach the goal sometimes is more difficult than for man. The masturbating women should know her own body very well. She should know where the pleasure points are and she should touch them softly until getting excited. Touch your breast, inner thighs and belly with arousing touches. For some women the clitoris simulation is enough to reach the orgasm.

However we are talking about couples masturbation and everyone should think about their partner too. Run your finger along the clitoris. Massage it lightly. Finger yourself. If necessary use moisturizer or suck your finger. To see a masturbating women suck her finger is  very  erotic. Some women's bodies are not shaped for their own finger penetration and some others arms are not long enough. If you can not finger yourself and need something inside you, use a vibrator. If you do not have one, you can use almost anything if it is properly cleaned. Should not use small things that might lost inside. Certain types of fruits or vegetables might do an excellent job. Insert and withdraw it several times. Then leave it in  and squeeze your vaginal muscles. Feel that thing in your vagina. With one of your hands rub and massage your clitoris. With the other, play with your nipples. The more sexual simulation the better. Use your deepest erotic feelings. Fantasize with the world's best looking man. Repeat and try to breathe deeply.  I guarantee you, sooner or later you will reach your goal. 

The masturbating lady's  position is very important. She should choose a position, that lets her male partner see as much as possible. Remember men fantasize about erotic female body parts. If the man sees the masturbating women he will reach his goal in no time... More masturbation info for women >>>

Also partners can help  each other. You can kiss and touch hold or even masturbate  each other. Everything is allowed that feels good and everyone is comfortable with.

How should men masturbate?

99% of the men masturbate. The other 1% masturbate too, but they lie about it. According to this there are not too many men who do not know how to masturbate. If you are one of them, and never masturbated before we can give you some basic ideas. Watching a masturbating women is very erotic for a man. Because of this the man should use minimal pressure on his penis and should stop periodically to delay the erection. You do not want to shoot all your bullet immediately. The best way to do this. Sit on a chair or on the sofa with slightly open legs. Rub a small amount of saliva or lubricant, for example K-Y jelly into your palm and fingertips. Take your penis into your hand, stroke slowly up and down the shaft. Vary the pressure. Turn your fantasy on and keep your eyes on that masturbating lady. If you think your penis is not hard enough stroke up and down faster.

If it doesn't work, form a ring with your thumb and index finger of both hands. Place both rings on your penis as close to the base as close as you can. Hold one ring on the base and move the other up to the head of your penis and stretch your penis with the movement. Repeat it several times in a speedy rhythm until you are hard. It works for most men. When you are hard you should start to play with your balls with your other hand. Massage them gently. If you like rough sex, you should try to pull the balls away from the body. If you think you will cum, slow down. You don't want to reach the no return point. If you delay your orgasm several times the joy will be bigger and better when you reach it.

Men who masturbate often and learned how to delay his orgasm in masturbation will learn very easily how to delay his orgasm in intercourse too. More masturbation info for men >>>

After just relax...